“check list.” It will be a time of discovery about the other person which will allow you to grow in your love for them. You are investing time in your future joy. The Bible says, “Godliness is of great value, both for the present life and the life to come” (1 Timothy 4:8). Each of these questions will help you to grow in godliness, in thinking accurately and living skillfully. You will think about marriage with the living God—who gave His beloved Son Jesus to become your husband—at the center of